I was filling some drill holes on my walls using this product
https://www.bunnings.com.au/selleys-180g-spakfilla-rapid-gap-filler-180g_p1231864
it's very easy to work but it never sets completely. Even if you leave it for months you mix some water and then it becomes soft again
by the same token I fill a shallow hole and sand it down perfectly.
as soon as I paint over it the water in the paint dissolves the filler and it is no longer the surface that I had prepared
how are you supposed to deal with this?